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π° I need help
π§ I'm the sitter
You're safe. This will pass. π
Start with your breathing below: everything else can wait.
Where are you at right now?
I need to calm down
My thoughts are spiraling
I need a sound to focus on
I need a person with me
Breathe
Follow the circle with your breath. Inhale as it expands, exhale as it contracts. This helps regulate your nervous system.
Pause
Resume
Restart
Engage your senses to bring yourself to the present moment. Click each item as you notice it.
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Grounding Complete!
You're anchored in the present moment. Well done.
Reset Grounding
Calm auditory environments to help soothe anxiety. Only one sound plays at a time.
White Noise
Steady hiss that masks background noise
Ocean Waves
Slow rolling waves to breathe along with
Forest & Birds
Soft wind with distant birdsong
Gentle Rain
Light rainfall, easy to tune out
Calm Heartbeat
Slow steady pulse to anchor to
Brown Noise
Deep rumble, softer than white noise
Volume
Stop All Sounds
Use the slider or your device controls for volume
A quick checklist to assess your basic needs and comfort.
Hydration: Sip water slowly
Comfort: Adjust clothing if needed
Position: Sit or lie down safely
Temperature: Adjust if too hot/cold
Connection: Reach out if possible
Breathing: Take 3 deep breaths
Remember
If you can't do any of these right now, that's okay. Just focus on your breathing and know that this will pass.
Safety tips for managing difficult experiences at music events.
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Hydration
Sip water slowly and often. Avoid chugging or sugary drinks.
Environment
Step outside or find a chill zone if overwhelmed. Quiet spaces help.
Buddy System
Stay with someone you trust. Check in with each other regularly.
Avoid Mixing
Don't mix substances or drink lots of alcohol. Give your body breaks.
Useful Tools
Sunglasses, earplugs, water bottle, and breathing exercises help.
I Need Help at an Event
Intense moments often pass within 10-20 minutes. Use this timer to wait it out safely.
15:00
Start
Pause
Reset
5 Min
20 Min
Many people find things stabilize after ~10-20 minutes
While You Wait
Focus on your breathing. Remind yourself: "I just need to get through the next few minutes."
I am safe and this will pass.
Previous
Next
Speak
Repeat the mantra slowly in your mind or aloud. Tap to change.
After the experience passes, reflection can help integrate insights.
What helped during this experience?
What would I try next time?
Self-Care After
Rest and hydrate
Eat nourishing, simple food
Talk to someone you trust
Be gentle with yourself for 24-48 hours
Save Reflections
If you need human support right now, these resources are available:
Medical Emergency
If you or someone else is experiencing a medical emergency, call 911 or your local emergency services immediately.
I'm Feeling Better Now
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Sensory Safe Mode
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Sitter mode
You're the anchor right now
They're not in danger from the trip itself, but they need one calm person. That's you. Keep your voice low and slow.
π¬ Say this
"You're safe. I'm right here."
"This will pass. I'm not going anywhere."
"Let's breathe together. In with meβ¦"
"Do you want water? Do you want quiet?"
π« Don't do this
Don't say "calm down" or "you're fine" on loop. It doesn't land.
Don't grab, hold, or restrain them unless they're about to get hurt.
Don't ask complicated questions or make them decide things.
Don't gather a crowd. One calm person beats five worried ones.
Don't leave them alone.
π¨ Call 911 if you see
Trouble breathing, chest pain, or a seizure
Can't be woken up, or dangerously overheated
Behavior that could seriously hurt them or someone else
Minnesota's Good Samaritan law (604A.05) protects people who call 911 for an overdose in good faith. Don't let fear of getting in trouble stop the call.
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Sitter checklist
One person talks. Everyone else gives space.
Low lights, low noise. Move somewhere calmer if you can.
Water within reach. No more substances.
Give time anchors: "It's 11:40. The set ends at midnight. You've got this."
Stay until they're back to baseline, then food, rest, and no driving.
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